Wednesday, November 24, 2010

All I Asking For is My Body Part 2

Kiyoshi’s mother is a very superstitious woman.  After she left her family back in Japan and moved to Hawaii in order to marry, a series of misfortune events took place that forced the young couple to hand over to her parents all of their savings.  Kiyoshi’s mother began to think after this that she was the carrier of bad luck as she told Kiyoshi “A bad wife is fifty years of bad crops,…, I wasn’t a bad wife, but a bad-luck wife.”  Kiyoshi’s mother seems to be slightly more superstitious that most Japanese women.  After she suddenly falls extremely ill, her unfounded fears have her believe that the reason behind her sickness is a debt that a relative must have with life, something similar to karma.  She believes that a relative most have done something terribly bad and had gone away with it; however a retribution must be paid, and if that who did bad is not punished someone else in substitution will be.  She assumes she’s an alternator to pay for who has done badly.  Although Kiyoshi is not a believer himself of all of her mother’s popular beliefs, he respects them, and he’s careful about them.  I, personally, also consider most of them to be “silly superstitions” as Kiyoshi’s father calls them.  However, there’s a part of me that reminds me to know better and respect the wisdom of those who had been here before me, and the rest of us; and so, Kiyoshi asked for Obaban’s help.
The day after Kiyoshi talked to Obaban about his mother’s sickness, how nothing was working for her, and how she was afraid she was being the substitute to pay somebody else’s condemn Obaban died.  After learning the sad news, Kiyoshi felt relief as he understood that if his mother’s beliefs were true, and what she needed was not doctors but someone to be a substitute for herself, she had been saved by Obaban taking her place.

5 comments:

  1. Hi Estela,

    I like your point at the end of the first paragraph. It's hard to know the difference between conventional wisdom and "silly superstitions". Given the kind of woman Mrs. Oyama is, it's clear that she's looking for answers and finds them in these beliefs and practices. For her, these superstitions are true.

    Thanks for your observations!

    Lauren

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  2. Hi Estela,

    Thank you for your insights. I agree with Lauren that Mrs. Oyama is looking for answers and the only place she can find her answers is in her own believes. She has believe in a lot of superstition that it looks like it has taken over her life and family life also.

    Maura

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  3. I think that Kiyoshi's mother believes in these superstitions because she finds comfort in the rituals as they provide certainty. I also think that she prefers to believe in superstitions as they provide explanations to why certain things happen to individuals and that nothing is random.

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  4. I really liked your insight on the story. I also thought that they were very silly superstionions. But after Mrs. Oyama died it makes you understand why she believes them.

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  5. Hi Estela,
    I agree that Mrs. Oyama was looking for something to blame all of her misfortunes on. I think that her giving in to it though played a big part in how bad she was. She just gave up on life, knew she was about to die and accepted it.

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